Monday, September 25, 2006

Be Nice, Say Hi, and Smile

Life: I took the bus in today from my sunny little neighborhood in what I always thought of as "relatively polite" Seattle. My bus driver was this very happy jovial fellow, who always gave a hearty "Hello, how are you today?" welcome to each bus passenger. I decided to take statistics of how often people responded. Around Nickerson and 15th (about a mile since I started my count), only 2 people had responded pleasantly. Many people said absolutely nothing, some grunted something unitelligable, a few had a focused floor-stairing look with bulging headphones, and a mere 2 out of 14 responded pleasantly and politely with something akin to a "I'm doing fine. Thank you." I was totally shocked. That's a pathetically low number. Fortunately the next 4 people in a row were nice, to eventually leave the stat at a pathetic, but not horrific, 6 out of 19. What's wrong with people? Someone looks you in the eye, performs a service for you, says an unequivocally nice thing to you - smile back and say hello.

2 comments:

  1. Anonymous3:54 AM

    My wife and I have a new hobby in Norway. We freak out little kids by waving "hi" to them and smiling. They are stunned and have no idea what to do but after panicing for a few seconds, they usually smile and hide their face.

    Maybe it is the Scandinavian heritage of your hood in Seattle that causes people to be withdrawn.

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  2. Anonymous1:33 PM

    Who needs personal human interaction when television perfectly fulfills those needs for us?

    Besides, its awkwards talking to ppl you don't know. Isn't it time you bought a nice large lux-SUV? One w a tv built-in?

    Then it would be "chalo dhekho"

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